Which statement best reflects an empathetic, nonjudgmental response when a patient describes the effects of sexual assault?

• A. What you are experiencing must be frightening. These symptoms are shared by many who have been sexually assaulted.
• B. You should forget it and move on.
• C. It’s not a big deal.
• D. It’s your fault.

Answer: (A)

Empathy and validation are essential when a patient describes the effects of sexual assault. The best response acknowledges that the describes can be frightening and lets them know their reactions are understandable. Saying that these symptoms are shared by many survivors normalizes their experience, which helps reduce isolation and builds trust. This approach communicates respect, safety, and nonjudgment, inviting continued openness and support.

Responses that dismiss or blame—telling someone to forget it, that it’s not a big deal, or that it’s their fault—tend to invalidate the person’s experience, increase shame or fear, and undermine the therapeutic relationship.